Flower girl & ring bearer gifts

A flower girl or ring bearer proposal they keep: a book where they are the hero

Ask your flower girl or ring bearer with a picture book made from one photo: they are the hero, and your question is printed on the very first page.

A proposal box gets opened once. A book with the child on every page, and your question as its dedication, is still on their shelf after the wedding, and it is the part of the asking they can read again when they are older.

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The question is the part people get stuck on, because a three-year-old and a nine-year-old need it asked in different words. We wrote down what to write in a flower girl or ring bearer proposal

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Common questions

What do you give a flower girl when you ask her?

Something she is in. A storybook where she is the hero, with your proposal printed as the dedication on the first page, is a question and a keepsake in one. The story itself is not about a wedding - none of ours is, and we would rather say so. She is the hero of the adventure, and your question is the first thing she reads.

How does the proposal get into the book?

Through the dedication page. Once the book is unlocked you type who it is to, a message of up to 400 characters and who it is from, and it prints as the first page the child sees. It costs nothing extra and you can change it until you approve the print. Our guide has 25 proposal messages to copy, sorted by age.

Is there a ring bearer version?

It is the same book: one child is the hero, whoever they are. Pick the story by their age and what they are into. Every story page shows the ages it is written for, and the reading level is set during setup.

Can my flower girl and ring bearer be in one book together?

Not as two heroes - each book has one hero, because the likeness is held for one face across twelve chapters. If they are brother and sister, The Two of Us puts the sibling beside the hero all the way through. Otherwise make one book each: the second is 30% off at checkout.

How far ahead should I order?

The book only has to be ready for the day you ask. A printed copy takes six days to the UK and nine to ten inside the US from the moment you approve it; the digital edition is ready the same day, and you can ask with that and give the printed book later.

Can I be in the book with them?

Not in most of our stories, which have one person in them: the child. A handful of family stories hold up to four people, and The Day Everyone Came is the one where the house fills up with family and the child is the reason for all of it. It is written as a family celebration with a cake, not as a wedding.

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