Help topic - making friends

Personalized books about making friends

For a new school, a new street, or a party where they know nobody.

The hard part of making a friend is almost never the friendship - it is the eight seconds before you say anything. Children who struggle here are usually not unfriendly or unliked; they are waiting for somebody else to go first, and so is everyone else in the room. A story is a rehearsal for those eight seconds. Having already watched themselves do it, with their own face on the child in the doorway, makes the real version noticeably smaller.

What to look for

Rehearse the opening

Not the friendship - the hello. That is the part that actually needs practising.

One friend is a success

Children do not need a group. The story ends with one, on purpose.

Around 4 to 8

When a child starts noticing who has somebody and who does not, this stops being abstract.

4 stories in making friends

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Your child builds a clunky little robot that beeps to life and becomes the best friend a kid could invent.

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Detective your child follows the clues to crack the town's trickiest mystery.

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A new playground, nobody your child knows, and one small decision: be the one who says hello first.

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Common questions

How can I help my shy child make friends?

Lower the target: one person, one opening line, one shared thing to do. Shy children usually make good friends slowly rather than no friends, and pushing them into a group tends to confirm their worry rather than fix it.

My child is starting a new school. Which story?

Either the one about arriving somewhere new, or the one about being the one who says hello first - and read it a week or two beforehand rather than the night before.

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Make them the hero of the story.

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